22
May
2009
My friend left a message in Facebook to me about asking my man buys a diamond for me. I then MSN-ed my man,
“Mr.H said you should buy me a diamond ring”
“ok, you can buy it from HK”
“no lar, i don’t like diamond, i just like bag”
“but if diamond, you can pass to xxx when she gets married”
FYI, xxx is my daughter. I was happy when i read the last sentence. I have always felt that he doesn’t love his daughter as much as his sons, so i was glad that he still remembers that he has a daughter.
Posted: Man, myself
20
May
2009
When you see there is a pair of married couples, you may think maybe they live happily ever after, but you’re not either of them so perhaps you can’t know their actual life.
I have always had this silly thought, but now only i can convince myself that not every couples can live happily even though they are hanging together everyday. Mind and soul can be aparted far even though the couples sleep on the same bed. Of course marriage has infinited ups and downs, some couples still could tie together for long however some might just get divorced.
Marriage is life-long commitment and life-long love, how to make the love sprouts and how to make it grows fonder and harder are definitely a life-long knowledge. I love my man, of course, every bits and bites that happened over the years are still engraved in my heart, however just like what i have mentioned before, marriage just like a roadway, you can drive smoothly and happily when the roadway is straight and even, but you can drive furiously when the roadway ahead is uneven and slopy, so actually is depend on what kind of life you want, since the roadway ahead can be unpredictable, then why don’t just live happily today?
Actually i don’t know what i wanted to say, but have a sudden urge to post something about the relationship. Perhaps i miss my man so much, sigh, hope to cleave to him 24×7! But, he sure feels irritating to have a leech typed wife.
Posted: myself
20
May
2009
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If you could start your learning again, would you go ahead? For me, i would shout out YES loudly. I wish i could go back to my school life, don’t you think school life is less hectic than working life? Although i am just a SAHM, i sincerely wish i could study again, of course not now since i have 3 little kids in tow. Learning has no age limit, even you’re 80 you still can learn as long as your willingness is there. Equip oneself with knowledge is better than doing nothing, time flies everyday, so when you still can embrace today then why don’t give yourself a chance to do something different? The degree program or any other course will do the same. If i could study again, i would study hard and score all distinctions.
Posted: BGT
19
May
2009
I don’t really hate her, but of course cannot say i like her. The love-hate relationship just in the middle, i think. But don’t know why, i have very complicated mind now, feel like crying because i somehow very pity her. All the while we knew that she’s pregnant although she didn’t announce it officially, but recently i was told that she is no longer pregnant due to miscarriage. Well, actually we didn’t know the actual story too since she didn’t say any words so we better keep our mouth shut too.
The way she treats my kids has melted my heart, she loves kids but she has lost her baby. How ridiculous! I can feel her pain, and that’s why i suddenly accept her heartily. I hope she is fine, and i hope she will have another healthy baby soon.
Posted: myself
17
May
2009
I am feeling very lonely suddenly, the man has gone back to CN whereas the boys have gone to my parents’ house, so now only the CL, baby and me are staying here, just 3 of us are at this spacious house, sigh, i even could hear my echo. I have an urge to give myself a good cry, feeling very very moody but i know i should control myself as crying during confinement is possible leading to post-natal blue. Nothing is serious so i should have a positive mind, think happily and stay happily then only i can enjoy my health. But said better than done, i still feeling sad, maybe i miss my man and maybe those confinement taboos simply freak me out.
Lonely, lonely, still lonely….what a loneliest day!
Posted: myself
12
May
2009
I love staring at my newborn baby, her skin is smooth with combination of fair and rosy cheeks. How i wish i had a complexion like my baby girl, but my face still looks dull even i have been applying skin care products regularly. Somehow i wonder perhaps i didn’t use a proper way to restore my dull skin to more radiant fresh look, or perhaps i didn’t use any exfoliation method. Have been told that exfoliation is a best method to refresh dull skin to more youthful look skin, of course if i were still in my teenage years, then i should have no worries at all as my skin would exfoliate naturally every 2 weeks, but now, age is catching up, so i better take care of my skin before it’s too late. Sigh, being a lady somewhat is so troublesome, unlike my man, he has never worried about his skin complexion.
Posted: PU
8
May
2009
This morning, we held a short conversation before my man sending my boy to school,
Can i propose something? he said.
what?
Can you stop buying LV in the next 3 years? If you’re willing, then i will buy the XXX for you.
If no LV then how about Coach?
Aiyo…!
You wanna buy the XXX? I thought you don’t like it.
Because you like it, and you know, RM10k can buy 3 LVs, so you cannot buy any LV in the next 3 years.
I have never thought that he would make such a proposal to me, he simply seems so CALCULATIVE! Blame on his job. Anyway, the conversation does make my day but, not because he’s willing to pay. To be very honest, the excitement and passion of getting the XXX has vanished. I am getting cold feet, perhaps..
Posted: Man, myself
4
May
2009
My friend is worrying about the swine flu outbreak, she would go back to her home country if her current staying place has the flu virus found. Life is unpredictable, we had been reading a lot of news about H5N1 before this H1N1 flu, sigh, what a world now, and very soon this H1N1 may become a global pandemic. Touch wood, touch wood….
Actually nothing to worry, if it comes then just let it be, life is always like that, don’t you agree? The situation always turns out good with least expectation, so, better think positively otherwise would get old faster. Less worries less wrinkles, even less acne too, but if you have already had acne, then perhaps best acne pill can help you.
Posted: PU
4
May
2009
You thought 30 days of confinement period are really enjoyable? Maybe yes for you but definitely not for me, and actually i have been wondering how to survive in this 30 days, it is simply torturing. Imagine the hot, the smelly hair and smelly body as well as the stitching pain, gosh, i feel hard to survive in just a day, much less to talk about the sequences.
Be patient! But easier said than done!
Hate being confined, and this round i even give binder a try. I have never used binder for my past pregnancies, but this round i just hoped to shape back my belly as soon as possible. But i wondered does binder really help? Or maybe just try colon cleansers, a fastest way to reshape my belly.
Posted: PU
